relationships

150: Understanding the Roots of People-Pleasing with Amy Green Smith

In this conversation, Amy Greensmith discusses the concept of people-pleasing and its roots in our primitive defense mechanism. She explains that people-pleasing is not always nefarious and can be a way to stay safe. However, it becomes problematic when we sacrifice our own needs and self-worth to please others. We also discuss the impact of living authentically and prioritizing self-worth. The conversation highlights the importance of embodying all aspects of oneself and setting an example for the next generation.

“People-pleasing involves sacrificing ourselves to please others.”

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146: The Power of Clarity in Relationships and Life Goals with Mike Riddell

In this episode, Jillian and her husband Mike discuss the significance of clarity in personal goals, relationships, and life direction. They share their experiences, like identifying stressors and understanding our emotional responses to them. Highlighting the importance of positive emotions and resilience, they emphasize the importance of reassessing our goals regularly.

“You put a blindfold on somebody. They’ll never hit the target.”

Highlights:
(01:47) What Clarity Sessions Can Do
(05:07) Identifying Stressors
(10:43) Understanding Feelings Towards Stressors
(14:16) How Your Partner Can Help if They Understand You
(18:41) Identifying What Fills Us Up
(25:13) What Emotions are Leading Your Life?
(29:28) Clarity Sets You in the Right Direction
(32:28) Heart Mapping and Annual Reassessments
(35:47) The Value of Mentors to Finding Clarity

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